I had a very interesting day today and yesterday too. First off I had a real blast wearing my silly little gift from Izea which was a turkey hat and a free bottle of Jones Tofurkey and Gravy Soda! But since I also run a physical business here in town, I found out being silly and having fun and being yourself can rub people the wrong way. Sad really but truth be told I really don't care what people think of me at this point in my life as I am trying to live my life and love it just the way that it is. And so should you and everyone else. Life is hard enough as it is without me having to worry bout whether or not you like my freakin' Turkey hat or not! Sheesh.
I found out that a phone call was made to someone I know and respect about my life online. On Facebook, my blog and my myspace account someone has been following me and my goings on. It would seem that people are or someone is a bit perturbed by my rantings and ravings about my life and my store and the changes that are going on in my world. Ok let me say that last part again so that I make it clear. MY WORLD.
So news bulletin people....I blog for several reasons. I blog because I like to talk. Someone told me once that I talk too much I need to write so I started writing and ended up a songwriter. He is still a very close friend to this day. I learned that I feel better about things as I put them to paper, a blog or whatever and make it fun and light hearted. Writing also allows me to learn more about myself as I express. Not to mention give my opinion on some really cool things and also welcome people from all over the world into my world. Believe it or not I get emails and responses from people that want to talk direct.
Now back to this turd that decided they want to "tell on me". Can you tell I am really upset about this. Let's go here shall we? Let's get soap opera down which is something that I have never done on my blog but today is the day. I don't believe in a lot of talk from people about me and my life because no one is offering me anything really in terms of monetary support but this burns my tail.
Fact: I do business in a building with a friend of mine who happens to be a man. A mature older man with a following of lady friends who have found a way to be a part of his life. Hey I think that is great. He is a great person and a good friend and has his days just like everyone else.
Fact: We share a lot of things business wise together. You can use your imagination on this one and think about the business that we share and deal with daily. We are cool like that seriously. We are linked by many different ways except through two things, sex and a wedding ring.
Fact: People believe that he and I are husband and wife when in fact we are not and have never even dated. I have been in a relationship for some time and am planning on staying there.
BUT:
Oddly enough a phone call comes along and informs him that I talk about the business online and that he needs to be aware of what is being said on my BLOG! So I get a concerned business partner and friend who is older and really doesn't understand the internet and how we communicate chewing me out asking me about what is going on?
I have nothing to hide and immediately go to my blog and Facebook account to show him proudly my postings and what is going on which really he still does not understand just like I don't understand what he does with what he does in the back of the building which is auto repair.
I want to know who first off is calling you and he explains where the call came from. Ooooooooooooooooooh okaaaaaaay now that makes sense. Someone that does not understand what we are doing is trying to pull a fast one and make you feel out of control and insecure maybe?
Welp let me just be clear on one thing. This is my blog, my blog and I will say what I want to and how I want to say it on MY BLOG bottom line. Now you don't like it I say to you this. Stop following my rantings and ravings and get your own blog so you can write about whatever you want however you want. Also if tattling to this gentleman is your thing do you but leave me out of it. I know the real deal. (God I sound like a freaking soap opera)
People do not believe that two consenting adults cannot do business of the opposite sex without it becoming intimate. Well it can. So a touch of haterade is in the air. I don't know what flavor and I really don't care. I am on a mission and I want to make sure that I be clear on where I stand.
I do not share this person's bed, I am not this person's mate, wife, lover, or sex buddy. I am a business partner, associate, and his friend. We share laughs, my ups and downs and his, (yeah he has some) we eat lunch and dinner together sometimes because we are here all the time why not share a meal it makes sense. We have spats I do more spatting and he laughs at me he thinks its funny when I fuss because I can't over power his voice. I have cried on his shoulder, he has prayed for me when I was ill and when I needed prayer. We are friends. Actually you want the truth he reminds me of the big brother I should have had. Now since I know I am a topic of interest and my blog is being watched let me say this loud and clear.
If you want him, THERE HE IS.....hey even better, call him and tell him I told you that as well because trust me I will find out about it.
Ahhhhh I feel so much better now that I have written about that. I hope whomever is making silly calls and following me on my blog and my other social networking sites follows this one as well. And another thing, I am sooooooo beyond flattered that someone IS following me.
Keep watching as the new chapter unfolds, from music, to the cafe, to live events and my website moving and shaking and doing other things with my big brother friend thats what I will call him from now on this new ride is going to be interesting.
Continue to follow me....I'm sure you will learn something along the way just like I do.
Peace to you let the rolling credits from the soap opera begin now.
Mamma (Y've)
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