So many of us have a tendency to remain in marriages and relationships way to long.
We believe that this situation with this man defines us and makes us who we are as a woman. Society for many years has told women that this is who you are if are single or have a man in your life.
Sadly so many of us have decided that this most certainly must be true and we have defined ourselves based on this information.
We become so engrossed in it that we forget who we are and why we are even alive save for being his "woman" or his "wife".
What are you holding on for? What is the point? Every day feels the same. Every moment you are wondering if this is the day that you will wake up and he is gone. You will no longer have control over the situation.
FACT: You never did
Some of you are out there right now online until 4am in the morning with you little debit card on your desk hoping that if you Google "how to keep your man" that there will be a magic ebook out there that will give you the power to make this person who has shown you time and again that he doesn't truly want the relationship, stay.
FACT: Keep your money , he ain't stayin'
Here is the point.
You need to let him go and see about yourself.
Enough damage has been done, too many years have been lost waiting on shall I say this? Waiting on this man to get some "act right" and he won't.
It is not anything against you at all. So stop blaming yourself for how he has treated you over the years. What you can do however is make a decision to leave. Make a decision to move on with you life.
Yep I said it.
You don't have to stay you don't have to stick around believing that he is the only thing on the earth for you. YOU ARE THE ONLY THING ON EARTH FOR YOU.
In this new book
"THERE IS A LIFE WITHOUT HIM: A GUIDE ON HOW TO LEAVE HIM AND FIND YOU"
You will be able to finally learn the behaviors and situations that many women face every day. You will have a chance to cry, put the book down, cry some more, pick the book back up and move on to the next step.
There are exercises you will be encouraged to try and most of all along the way you will have a chance to finally see who you are in this process.
If you are tired of looking for the thousandth way to keep your man or make him stay....stop the madness today and get over it.
Grab hold of your life and LET HIM GO....so you can find you.......
Get your copy of the book by Paulette Clark, D.Msc. today for only $10
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