My First Book Is OUT Whoo hoo! DUMP HIS ASS!!!

I wanted to talk for a moment about something I have not been willing to talk about for a very long time until now. If you do not know I am a single mother however I am single officially by choice and not because I gave someone power of me.
I decided that in the relationship that I was in that there was just not enough signs that the man I believed loved me wanted the same things that I did. Let me explain.
I wanted marriage, he would avoid the conversation of it. I wanted to plan for the future for the two of us together. He wanted to leave in a huff and go work on his cars.
I turned up the fire on my domestic activities as well as other things such as family time, saving for the future and raising the children. He chose to cheat repeatedly, would not allow me to in the eight years we were together to meet family and friends. Yet I stayed.
I made excuses because I believed that this was the person for me.
Oh yeah sure he had some great qualities. He knew how to pay bills, but he didn't know how to pay attention to my needs. He knew how to smile when around my friends or in public but he would not hold a meaningful conversation with me about things that really mattered.
Looking back all of the signs were there. I should have cut my losses early and got out.
But noooooooooooo Mamma wanted to believe that she could fix it. Mamma wanted to believe that this man was the man she would spend the rest of her life with.
When the writing is on the wall don't try to erase it with denial.
I finally had the strength to let him go. I DUMPED HIS ASS!!!
No it wasn't a violent end or a duel of any kind I just slowly over time took steps to see about my needs first, clear my mind and focus on what was real. I finally realized that he didn't love me like I loved him and it was time to go. After wasting eight years of my life waiting for the ring I snapped out of my hazy stupor and took control.
Here is how I did it.

I put all of my steps that I took and put them in a book and called it simply DUMP HIS ASS!!!! "Steps To Leaving A No Good Man"
I know that the title may throw you a bit but I had to get real with myself and be CLEAR it was time to GO. No matter how much it hurt. No matter how much I loved him. No matter how many times he would leave and go and I took him back it was time to stop the madness.
I was ready to see that I was better than that. That I deserved better.
When I came out of it. I was stronger mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Did I and do I still love him?
Of course I do....BUT I LOVE ME MORE.
When I looked back over the process I took to get myself together and be free I realized that there were tons of women out there who were in situations that were going nowhere. I took all of my steps and put them in a book for anyone that wants it to find out what peace and a good nights sleep feels like.
So for the price of only $5 I have offered a download version of my book DUMP HISS ASS "Steps To Leaving A No Good Man"




For the price of a McDonald's Value Meal you can download this book and take the steps to get your life back. Ease the pain and get through to the other side of your life to begin again.
Was it easy? No. Was it worth it? Yes, because I know that the peace I have at night is knowing where I am at night. I don't have to at 4am in the morning text myself to find out where I am. I don't have to wonder what my future holds with myself because I know the plan I have for my life is for me and I intend to include me in it.

So for now check out my book. Pass the word along to someone that needs help seeing the writing on the wall or just doesn't know how to let go of a bad relationship.
I know the next question that you are asking. Do you still hurt? Of course I do but its not as bad as I thought.
I love me and that is enough. Do you still talk to him? We have a son, yes we do but only about his son's well being and nothing more. Do you think you will ever be with him again? Who knows? However regardless of that there had to come a time when I had to stand up and get some standards for myself and be real. I was allowing it and as long as I allowed it he would keep doing it. I also had to learn that if I was going to get a good healthy relationship and something better I would have to love me first and more than I had I given him in my past. You can do the same thing.
It won't be easy, it will hurt, but if you stick with the book like I did you WILL breathe again. YOU WILL COME OUT BETTER.

Til Next Time,

Live, Love , BREATHE and heal yourself.


Mamma (Y've)