When You Leavin? (When Enuff Is Enuff)

I thought I would take this time to talk to the folks out there that are waiting on a miracle. You know who you are. You are waiting on acknowledgement (LADIES) from him to be or do or say the right thing.
You been there five, ten, fifteen years looking for this man to step up and commit. Interesting 'cause I've been there. Well I can't say that I have waited for anyone ten years or even five but Lord knows I have waited.
You know the words he says when the topic of marriage or a life long commitment comes up. "I'm just not ready for that right now" so you wait. 'Cause he has all the qualities you looking for.
He's great with the kids, he pays the bills, he spends time with you. He just won't settle down with you.
Wait a minute what about the ones of us that are looking for the silver lining in the level of neglect and abuse that he puts down? Like ummmmm.....leaves you stranded waiting for days for him to show up or call or contact you and you all share bills, house notes and everything else between. He hides his cell phone so you don't hear it ring or never leaves it on when he is around you. He has yet to invite you to his family outings and events and for all the years that you all have been together you have never met his friends.
Oh girl you don't see the red flags? They are all over the place... they are waving in the air telling you like the airport traffic guy on the ground waving the flags guiding the jets to the runway.
The flags I am talking about are the flags that make you feel emotion. You hurt, your heart is heavy, you are texting, calling, leaving messages on his voice mail and driving by places you know he would hang out without you.
Im curious....when you leavin'?
No no I'm serious when are you leaving to save yourself from another moment of not being in control? Because right now he has all of the control and you have nothing but strings attached to you that he manipulates to get what he wants when he wants from you and then leave your there until he is ready to deal with you again on HIS terms. Are you insane? Have you bumped your head? When did his needs become more important than yours and that of any children that may be involved?
So lets look at it again, he won't commit to you, he has been clear without saying a word that you will not have his last name ever, you are not good enough to be seen with him in public with his family and his friends don't even know that you exist. Keep believing that you are the ONE if you want to.
This is enuff. Come on you can say it "Enuff is Enuff!"
I know it hurts, I know its hard to believe that this is really happening to you but stop letting it happen to you and take control. Ok cry, be angry, don't get even, just get silent, get strong, and get gone.
So now..."When You Leavin?"

Let Me Know....I'll Be Here

Mamma (Y've)